Walking to Lose Weight is Mental

Mental Preparation as a Weight Loss Tool

So much of what we see when walking to lose weight is the result of our attitude, self-filtering processes which adjust our view in ways which suit our existing world view. We may observe others in a critical way or be intimidated which leaves us feeling justified in a decision to avoid changing or trying something which would otherwise point us in the right direction. When walking to lose weight say we are scared of failure, particularly public failure. Do your friends or family lack respect for your goals? Perhaps they assume it is easy to do what you find hard? Are you scared of their affect on your intentions? If so this is easy to compensate for. Simply find a way to be committed to walking for weight loss and what you are already doing while being open to new attitudes which may enhance your path. For instance if friends always meet for coffee and cake, say you will meet them there and make it an opportunity to walk for at least 10 minutes beforehand. And enjoy being the one making healthy and low calories choices.

As a good friend trying to help your friend feel better when she’s fallen off the diet or walking to lose weight wagon, are you eating more to keep her company i.e. so she doesn’t seem like a failure? Is this really a good choice? Research shows that the overweight tend to be surrounded by overweight friends and family.

One small way to continue with weight loss is to be aware of the other ways to enjoy yourself which don’t require over indulgence. On a special occasion sort out what you can eat when out, even take your own food if this is appropriate. Don’t fuss but on the other hand a good home cook loudly insisting you have cake after having already eaten may require you accepting basically to shut her up but the major part is what you do next. Take it home for someone else perhaps or take one bite and leave it in a discreet place.

If an occasion is based solely on eating and drinking you could drop in for 10 minutes on the way to somewhere else not wanting to eat before your meal but wanting to wish everyone well. Otherwise eat before you go and take only small bites from the food on offer. If this is a paid event and it’s hard to not eat when you are paying anyway, as often chefs will cater for special needs, ask for low fat or a diabetic diet meal for yourself.

Weight loss is easier when you are on your side. And if you’re finding it hard without the support from others you would like, look for other ways of accessing that support, from weight loss forums online to walking groups and celebrity or trainer dvds! Feel supported by these inclusive exercise programs and let them become your community.

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oni posted at 2009-4-21 Category: walking for weight loss, walking to lose weight

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  1. #1JuliePratt @ 2009-4-21 22:19

    I like the advice you’re giving about finding some kind of support. As you mentioned, there are some great online forums that can serve that function.

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